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The sense of belonging, self-identity, and our upbringing.
Belonging isn’t always inherited—it’s often built from the ground up. When identity is shaped by contrasts, when connection feels like something to chase rather than something innate, the search for stability becomes personal.
4 days ago3 min read
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It's ok to get things wrong.
We spend so much time fearing mistakes—overthinking decisions, worrying about whether we’ve chosen the right path. But what if getting things wrong is just part of the process? What if mistakes aren’t setbacks, but stepping stones? The truth is, we’re not meant to navigate life perfectly. We’re meant to learn, to evolve, and to embrace the beauty of imperfection.
Aug 92 min read
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The exhausting reality of waiting for ‘The One’.
The exhausting reality of waiting for ‘The One’ is not just about longing for love—it’s about the weight of anticipation, the quiet frustration of always searching, always hoping, always wondering if the right person will finally appear. We tell ourselves to be patient, to trust that love will arrive at the perfect time, but what happens when the waiting begins to feel endless?
Aug 63 min read
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Your emotions and feelings are not up for debate.
In this reflection, I open up about a seven‑month situationship that left me feeling invisible, unworthy, and emotionally exhausted. Through heartbreak and overthinking, I discovered that our emotions—no matter how unreciprocated—hold their own value. This is a reminder that even when others treat us with inconsistency or indifference, our ability to care deeply remains something precious, something gold-like that no one can take away.
Jul 284 min read
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If you love them, tell them.
We shouldn’t let reciprocation decide whether our feelings are worth sharing. In this reflection, I write about the day I chose to be brave—openly telling someone I cared for them—and how, despite the rejection, it gave me freedom, self‑trust, and a deeper sense of worth.
Jul 213 min read
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Emotional safety is the new standard.
Emotional instability doesn’t always surface in the good times—it emerges in the aftermath: when egos are bruised, when rejection hits, when the power shifts.
May 122 min read
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How do we know if we're ready to love again?
After months of healing and deep reflection, I asked myself the question: Am I finally ready to love again? This is the emotional clarity that followed.
May 43 min read
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Letting go of a love that never felt right.
Letting Go of a Love That Never Felt Right is about the moments we hold on when we know we should walk away.
Apr 103 min read
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Why we cling to the wrong people (even when we know better).
We don’t always chase the guy—we chase the illusion of what he could offer us. Safety. Love. Stability.
Apr 43 min read
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Reclaiming your power: Healing after feeling powerless.
Reclaiming Your Power: Healing After Feeling Powerless isn’t just about overcoming fear—it’s about rediscovering strength.
Mar 293 min read
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Breaking the Cycle: True Healing Begins When You Show Up for Yourself
Breaking the Cycle: True Healing Begins When You Show Up for Yourself.
Mar 264 min read
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Life at 25: The Lessons That Changed Me
Last weekend, I turned 25—and for the first time, I feel truly satisfied with my life, even though nothing has gone as planned.
Mar 254 min read
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The Beauty of Pain: Why I Stopped Running from It.
Pain isn’t the enemy—it’s a guide. In this raw reflection, I explore what happens when we stop running from pain and start learning from it.
Mar 182 min read
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From Self-Love to Being Loved: Why Accepting Love Feels So Hard.
At the end of the day, do we truly beelieve that we deserve the type of love we are looking for?
Mar 43 min read
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Texting, Ghosting, and Self-Worth.
Texting, ghosting, and self-worth—three things that seem intertwined in the world of modern dating.
Feb 274 min read
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I Broke up with my Dream Job.
Breaking Up with My Job: Why Leaving a Career Can Hurt More Than a Relationship.
Feb 72 min read
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Authenticity Over Perfection: The Secret to Building Meaningful Relationships.
Discover why chasing perfection holds you back from real connection. Time to embrace authenticity and overcome fear of rejection.
Jan 234 min read
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How to Walk Away When You Don’t Want To.
Walking away doesn’t have to mean tearing yourself apart. What if you simply kept walking? Taking baby steps toward clarity and self-love.
Jan 144 min read
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When Everything Feels Like Too Much.
Feeling stuck and overwhelmed, like you’re sinking in life’s quicksand? Discover how to embrace your emotions and let go of control.
Dec 3, 20243 min read
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Vulnerability - The Ultimate Superpower.
But what if vulnerability isn’t a weakness at all? What if it’s the ultimate superpower helping us build a deeper connection with ourselves?
Nov 13, 20243 min read
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